Rituals to be followed when a divorced groom marries a divorce girl
By
P.R.Ramachander
I have to mention some important points
1.Divorce is not recognized in most of the castes of Hinduism
2.A man can marry any number of times and every time the Brahmin rituals have to be followed
3.in case of lady , the Brahmin ritual consists of
a. Her parents giving permission to her marry
b.Her parents giving her to a boy with a request to him to get married to the
their daughter.
c. The boy getting married to her
4.according
to our acharas , the girl becomes a family
member of her husband
and follows
his gothra
Because
of all this the marriage of a
divorced boy and divorced girl will consist of
a.Kanya dhan
b.marriage
a.Kanya
Dhan
There
is some
amount of confusion regarding
the kanya dhan. According to our rules, she belongs to gothra of her
former husband and who will give
her as dhan?
I believe
that when the society (the laws
of the country) gives her divorce, they
take her away from her husband’s family and so she gets back to her family(controversial?) and so her parents can
again give her to another boy.
b.Marriage
AS is the custom of our religion,
the boy gets the girl married according to his rituals as he is permitted
to marry any number of times
c.
Not needed rituals
There are many riruals
like kasi Yathra, OOnjal, malai
mathal etc which are not according to religious
rules. They can be simply dropped